Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions to Help Our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive

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This program is read by the author.

The mental wellbeing of our children is shockingly poor. Marc Brackett, author of Permission to Feel, knows why. And he knows what we can do.

"We have a crisis on our hands, and its victims are our children."

Marc Brackett is a professor in Yale University’s Child Study Center and founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. In his 25 years as an “emotion scientist”, he has developed a remarkably effective plan to improve the lives of children and adults - a blueprint for understanding our emotions and using them wisely so that they help, rather than hinder, our success and well-being. The core of his approach is a legacy from his childhood, from an astute uncle who gave him permission to feel. He was the first adult who managed to see Marc, listen to him, and recognize the suffering, bullying, and abuse he’d endured. And that was the beginning of Marc’s awareness that what he was going through was temporary. He wasn’t alone, he wasn’t stuck on a timeline, and he wasn’t “wrong” to feel scared, isolated, and angry. Now, best of all, he could do something about it.

In the decades since, Marc has led large research teams and raised tens of millions of dollars to investigate the roots of emotional well-being. His prescription for healthy children (and their parents, teachers, and schools) is a system called RULER, a high-impact and fast-effect approach to understanding and mastering emotions that has already transformed the thousands of schools that have adopted it. RULER has been proven to reduce stress, depression, and burnout and enhance to encourage higher academic achievement. This book is the culmination of Marc’s development of RULER and his way to share the strategies and skills with listeners around the world. It is tested, and it works.

This audiobook combines rigor, science, passion, and inspiration in equal parts. Too many children and adults are suffering; they are ashamed of their feelings and emotionally unskilled, but they don’t have to be. Marc Brackett’s life mission is to reverse this course, and this audiobook can show you how.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.


Top reviews from the United States

SimpleSolutions
5.0 out of 5 stars An absolute must read
Reviewed in the United States on September 8, 2019
I watched an interview on CNN with Professor Marc Brackett discussing emotions. The timing and need were perfect for me to purchase his book Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions to Help our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive. My bias told me that this would be an academic tome full of footnotes and a dry read. I was entirely wrong (the crossreferences are in the appendix). Professor Brackett’s is a highly entertaining and educational read. If you are in the working world, then definitely a must-read. I wish my family and friends would all read this book. I highly recommend it. Dr. Brackett is promoting a happier way of life. If you have kids facing bullying at school, this is an essential read. They are complete with real-life encounters and amusing anecdotes, and a page-turner. Please regard this as a practical handbook or a skills guide to more fêted interpersonal relationships book. Dr. Brackett writes intimate accounts of his challenges as a kid growing up with his emotions and numerous examples taken from his family situation, in addition to the knowledge gained traveling nationally and internationally. I valued the way he weaves into this volume other academics in his field and contributions they made regarding emotions and related topics. If you are a male, female, parent, grandparent, spouse/partner, manager, employer, employee, worker, teacher or student, then this book/handbook is primarily for you. It was back to school for a new academic year this past week. My daughter tells me that her twins were not happy at the end of their first day. Had my daughter read this book, I suspect that she may have addressed her 12-year old’s situation differently. After reading Marc’s book the first time, you will gain additional benefit as you reread a second, third, and multiple times after that. There is so much to learn and apply in our daily lives. What a terrific contribution Dr. Marc is making to society, your input is profoundly affirmative. Thank you and thank you for helping me thrive. (This is much better than Dr. Benjamin Spock’s Baby and Child Care that my parents used to raise me). Bottom line: this book is a fun, informative, and an educational read
Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent resources for parents, educators, managers and those who want to be good humans
Reviewed in the United States on November 21, 2023
I participated in a training through the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and was so impressed by the depth of information and research that I was excited to learn more in this book. Highly recommend for so many people in various walks of life who could benefit from the research and wisdom in this book.
Christine Ziemba
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book if your looking to do SEL work
Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2024
Met the author. Book is amazing just like author. Great points. Would highly recommend
Kristin
4.0 out of 5 stars A great place to start with EI
Reviewed in the United States on May 18, 2020
If you haven't read much about emotional intelligence, this is the perfect place to start. If you're like me and somewhat obsessively read about the topic, it may be a tad basic, though the RULER method is helpful to put lessons into something tangible.
Harvey Deutschendorf
5.0 out of 5 stars A valuable contribution to the crucial need of understanding and using our emotions effectively
Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2019
The author states that “emotions are the most powerful force in the workplace—as they are in every human endeavour”. I strongly believe this and there is increasing research and evidence that is coming to the same conclusion. If this truly is the case, then it is crucial that we learn more about emotions, what they are, how they impact us and how we can use them to work for us, rather than against us. This book comprehensively lays out and explains all these areas and gives us a roadmap for better understanding, navigating and more effectively mastering our emotions and those of others around us. As the founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and Yale Child Study Center, Marc Brackett has developed the RULER system to help schools enhance and manage their emotions. The system has been adopted in thousands of schools in the U.S. and outside. The results have been very positive. This is not an academic tome, full of research and statistics. The author shares his own struggles with being bullied as a child and writes in a very accessible, entertaining and human manner.
Alisa MB
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read
Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2023
What a wealth of information, only at part two but can’t put it down!
Kuzeyhan Ozdemir
5.0 out of 5 stars Give yourself permission to feel!
Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2022
This is a fabulous and practical book of Prof. Marc Brackett. It shows how to empower yourself with R.U.L.E.R. Model developed by him and his colleagues at Yale University 's Center for Emotional Intelligence. It helped me to RULE and Regulate my emotions. I have to admit that it takes time but it is worthy.
Tara Rosenberg
5.0 out of 5 stars Very happy with my purchase
Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2023
I've purchased several items from this seller and I am very pleased. The quality is exactly as described. Great prices and ships quickly. Thank you!

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