I loved the tone of this book. It was so comforting and encouraging, and as Becker leads you through the basics of understanding minimalism, he does it in a way that reflects his own journey without imposing it on the reader. I really appreciated his ability to recognize that the journey is different for everyone. And I especially appreciated the emphasis on generosity and service. I read a book by another popular minimalist and it seemed so prescriptive I was turned off. Becker's approach is more expansive, more gentle, and kind.
My experience so far seems to be going in phases or levels. Level 1 is getting rid of the obvious junk. With his recommendation, I started with the easy stuff. Clothes are easy for me, I'm no clotheshorse and am happy to wear the same thing every day. Same with jewelry and makeup - I really don't feel the need for much. So I started there and found it so refreshing to get the clutter off my surfaces, that I have continued with a basic household purge. Once that's all done, I will start really doing the work of minimalism as I work through some of the things I am attached to but don't need.
This really is a process and I'm just at the beginning. I finished this book and immediately read two more of this others. His "voice" really resonates with me personally. Easy-going and practical, and he's living a life a lot of people can relate to, in the suburbs with a couple of kids. This is in contrast to the other popular minimalist who went on and on about how he made tons of money and was obsessed with status. For a lot of us, the issue isn't that we buy things for status. Becker goes into the reasons why people buy stuff, and the thing that resonated the most with me is "security." He wisely points out that security is also found in strong social connections. And unlike others, he doesn't advocate throwing out people who don't "serve you," recognizing that give and take in relationships varies from person to person. Of course he does recognize that some relationships are just plain harmful and need to go. But if we only consider relationships on the basis of how much any given individual makes us feel self-actualized, well, that's kind of selfish.
So I've read three books by Becker now and I have enjoyed them all. I find them motivating and practical and comprehensive. The religious overtones didn't really bother me. When he used examples from the Bible it was to illustrate a point and he talked about these values in other religions as well. It didn't feel like proselytizing.
Well done, sir.
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