Hope for Cynics: The Surprising Science of Human Goodness

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Last update: 09-10-2024


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Cynicism is making us sick; Stanford Psychologist Dr. Jamil Zaki has the cure—a “ray of light for dark days” (Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author).

For thousands of years, people have argued about whether humanity is selfish or generous, cruel or kind. But recently, our answers have changed. In 1972, half of Americans agreed that most people can be trusted; by 2018, only a third did. Different generations, genders, religions, and political parties can’t seem to agree on anything, except that they all think human virtue is evaporating.

Cynicism is a perfectly understandable response to a world full of injustice and inequality. But in many cases, it is misplaced. Dozens of studies find that people fail to realize how kind, generous, and open-minded others really are. Cynical thinking worsens social problems, because our beliefs don’t just interpret the world—they change it. When we expect the worst in people, we often bring it out of them.

Cynicism is a disease, with a history, symptoms—and a cure. Through science and storytelling, Jamil Zaki imparts the secret for beating back cynicism: hopeful skepticism. This approach doesn’t mean putting our faith in every politician or influencer. It means thinking critically about people and our problems, while simultaneously acknowledging and encouraging our strengths. Far from being naïve, hopeful skepticism is a more precise way of understanding others, and paying closer attention re-balances how you think about human nature. As more of us do this, we can take steps towards building the world we truly want.

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Top reviews from the United States

Kurt Gray
5.0 out of 5 stars Skepticism is not Cynicism
Reviewed in the United States on September 3, 2024
It's a lovely book, beautifully written, solid on the science, and firm on optimism. Many people are filled today with cynicism, but hope is attainable. This book maps out the case—and the pathway—for leaving behind our cynicism.

One idea I really appreciated was the distinction between skepticism and cynicism. We should be suspicious of unsupported scientific claims, but less suspicious of each other and our motivations. In fact, a health skepticism is one way to combat cynicism. Media pundits tell us that other people are filled with hate, but Zaki cites ample science showing that most people want the best for each other.

The message of the book is clear and elegant: If you trust the data, you should better trust other people.

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