
Someone You Can Build a Nest In
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Last update: 01-13-2025
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Shesheshen is a shapeshifter, who happily resides as an amorphous lump at the bottom of a ruined manor. When her rest is interrupted by hunters intent on murdering her, she constructs a body using a metal chain for a backbone, borrowed bones for limbs, and a bear trap as an extra mouth. However, the hunters chase Shesheshen out of her home and off a cliff. Badly hurt, she's found and nursed back to health by Homily, a warmhearted human, who has mistaken Shesheshen as a fellow human. Homily is kind and nurturing and would make an excellent coparent: an ideal place to lay Shesheshen's eggs so their young could devour Homily from the inside out. But as they grow close, she realizes humans don't think about love that way.
Shesheshen hates keeping her identity secret from Homily, but just as she's about to confess, Homily reveals why she's in the area: she's hunting a shapeshifting monster that supposedly cursed her family. Shesheshen didn't curse anyone, but to give herself and Homily a chance at happiness, she has to figure out why Homily's twisted family thinks she did. As the hunt for the monster becomes increasingly deadly, Shesheshen must unearth the truth quickly, or soon both of their lives will be at risk. And the bigger challenge remains: surviving her toxic in-laws long enough to learn to build a life with, rather than in, the love of her life.
Top reviews from the United States

5.0 out of 5 stars Easily my favourite romance novel
"Someone You Can Build a Nest In" is a book that follows Shesheshen, an autistic coded shapeshifter, as she deals with difficult trials in life that I found very relatable as an ace trans person, such as discovering what parts of a relationship do you actually want, as opposed to what you thought you're supposed to want, struggling with the effort it takes to hide that your body isn't like most people's, debating at what stage of a new relationship are you supposed to tell your girlfriend you murdered and ate her brother, wrestling with the dangers of narratives you construct for yourself, and more.
My main worry when I started this book was that it'll turn out to be too gimmicky, and prove to have nothing of value other than its concept. This, luckily, turned out to be false. Everything from the characters to the plot (which turned out to be more interesting than I expected) and the writing itself was thoroughly enjoyable.
Shesheshen is amazing. As a neurodivergent person myself, I couldn't help but relate to her opinions of talking and human interactions in general. I really appreciate how the book makes it clear she's not a very good person, but still allows you to root for her. Her perspective on her (and other people's) body is pretty creative. While the shapeshifter is not a new monster, this interpretation of it is, again, creative. Her struggles with her body was one of my favourite parts of the book.
Homily was a pleasant surprise. Don't have too much to say about her, but she turned out to be a lot more interesting than I anticipated. I didn't like her as much as Shesheshen, but I liked her.
The romance between the two showed me that I like romance stories a lot more when the POV is ace. Usually, the sexual attraction makes me really uncomfortable, and I can't help but roll my eyes at dramatic kissing descriptions. Shesheshen's and Homily's one kiss is my favourite kiss in fiction, and maybe my favourite moment in the book. I also really love the cute things they tell each other, like “If you like me being me... then I will try to keep it up. So long as you keep being you.”
Lastly, I do have a few nitpicks. The main one is the ending. It's not bad, it's just too focused. We got quite a long ending, and I do like that, but I felt like we could have learned more about what happened around them. What happened to the people? How is the town like? Where are the rest of the surviving characters? How does everyone perceive the events of the stories?
I would totally understand leaving some of these things open, but I feel like I have nothing to go on, which is a shame.
The second main nitpick is something that might be a bit of a hot take, but I don't like the use of modern queer language in settings like these. Don't get me wrong. I love the representation. The inclusion of random NB extras, and the acknowledgement of allosexual people as a group and not as "the whole". But the modern terms really didn't fit the vibes of the story. The power of representation comes from authentic portrayals of the experiences, and not from the right terms being used.
Overall, Someone You Can Build a Nest In has easily become one of my favourite books, and I can't wait for more from John Wishwell.

4.0 out of 5 stars Who's a Monster?
I came back to it and found the yes, it has echoes of Beowulf, but it is more than that. As Shesheshen becomes more comfortable in the human world, she becomes more human and, while still technically a monster, less monstrous. And the humans she too often meets are pretty monstrous, too.
Her relationship with Homily is endearing. I loved Blueberry, the huge bear. In reference to a currently popular meme, this book illustrates why women would rather be with a strange bear than a strange man.

5.0 out of 5 stars Monsters are a relative thing
Shesheshen has always been alone since emerging from her "nest," her fond childhood memories being...not quite what most people would describe as such. She's a shapeshifting monster, an expert predator, whose true past is a bit of a mystery. And she didn't realize she could be anything but alone, until her life is saved by Homily, a woman who is also alone but has a giving heart and needs a friend.
The story of Shesheshen trying to cope with her new emotions about Homily, while also trying to avoid the monster hunters determined to destroy her, takes some really wicked and unexpected twists and turns. Though an outsider, she's just experienced enough in human ways to learn and grow as she tries to protect herself from extremely determined enemies.
The whole is a delight, clever and inventive and heartfelt and heart-rending and yeah, a touch gory. I loved it.

5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic read

3.0 out of 5 stars Strange, cheerfully gruesome, affectionate story about a monster.
"Those were not the words of a worthy father. They were the words of breakfast."
Keeping this short, because I am on vacation. Call it three and a half out of five biting stars for me. Likely a four or five star read for those with more appetite for the gruesome.
About my reviews: I try to review every book I read, including those that I don't end up enjoying. The reviews are not scholarly, but just indicate my reaction as a reader, reading being my addiction. I am miserly with 5-star reviews; 4 stars means I liked a book very much; 3 stars means I liked it; 2 stars means I didn't like it (though often the 2-star books are very popular with other readers and/or are by authors whose other work I've loved).
