I Like to Watch: Arguing My Way Through the TV Revolution

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From The New Yorker’s fiercely original, Pulitzer Prize-winning culture critic, a provocative collection of new and previously published essays arguing that we are what we watch.

“Emily Nussbaum is the perfect critic—smart, engaging, funny, generous, and insightful.”—David Grann, author of
Killers of the Flower Moon

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY NPR Chicago Tribune Esquire Library Journal Kirkus Reviews

From her creation of the “Approval Matrix” in
New York magazine in 2004 to her Pulitzer Prize–winning columns for The New Yorker, Emily Nussbaum has argued for a new way of looking at TV. In this collection, including two never-before-published essays, Nussbaum writes about her passion for television, beginning with Buffy the Vampire Slayer, the show that set her on a fresh intellectual path. She explores the rise of the female screw-up, how fans warp the shows they love, the messy power of sexual violence on TV, and the year that jokes helped elect a reality-television president. There are three big profiles of television showrunners—Kenya Barris, Jenji Kohan, and Ryan Murphy—as well as examinations of the legacies of Norman Lear and Joan Rivers. The book also includes a major new essay written during the year of MeToo, wrestling with the question of what to do when the artist you love is a monster.

More than a collection of reviews, the book makes a case for toppling the status anxiety that has long haunted the “idiot box,” even as it transformed. Through it all, Nussbaum recounts her fervent search, over fifteen years, for a new kind of criticism, one that resists the false hierarchy that elevates one kind of culture (violent, dramatic, gritty) over another (joyful, funny, stylized).
I Like to Watch traces her own struggle to punch through stifling notions of “prestige television,” searching for a more expansive, more embracing vision of artistic ambition—one that acknowledges many types of beauty and complexity and opens to more varied voices. It’s a book that celebrates television as television, even as each year warps the definition of just what that might mean.

FINALIST FOR THE PEN/DIAMONSTEIN-SPIELVOGEL AWARD FOR THE ART OF THE ESSAY

“This collection, including some powerful new work, proves once and for all that there’s no better American critic of anything than Emily Nussbaum. But
I Like to Watch turns out to be even greater than the sum of its brilliant parts—it’s the most incisive, intimate, entertaining, authoritative guide to the shows of this golden television age.”—Kurt Andersen, author of Fantasyland

“Reading Emily Nussbaum makes us smarter not just about what we watch, but about how we live, what we love, and who we are.
I Like to Watch is a joy.”—Rebecca Traister


Top reviews from the United States

  • Ann Willmott
    5.0 out of 5 stars smart and relatable!
    Reviewed in the United States on January 27, 2020
    This book is engaging and a really great read. It's like a late-night conversation with a friend who is both completely relatable and also scary smart. She believes in television as an art form, unapologetically - and she holds a critic's lamp up to what she sees, including calling it out when it falls short. There's special magic that can only happen when TV superfan blends seamlessly into TV critic and journalist. Some of the essays demonstrate her methods, including in-depth interviews and research. If it sounds high-minded, it is, but you'll also want to get some popcorn or an adult beverage and read all about the time she spent with Ryan Murphy and his family, talking about his childhood. Really, I loved the book and think most anyone who's ever watched TV will find something to like here.
  • JAH
    4.0 out of 5 stars Great read for anyone who loves TV!
    Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2019
    This was such a fun, inspiring, interesting, and poignant read. I had actually not read any of Emily Nussbaum’s work before and I’m now a huge fan! I, like the author, have also always had a huge penchant for Buffy the Vampire Slayer, one of the best TV shows that has ever aired on TV. I think I’m actually going to spend the summer watching reruns now after reading this book!

    I Like To Watch is a compilation of some of the Pulitzer Prize winning TV critic’s essays and profiles. There is one on Buffy, another on Jenji Kohan, another on Kenya Barris and black-ish. You will find essays on The Good Wife, Scandal, Girls, as well as Sex and the City, Tina Fey, and content on the history of the TV series. There is also a sprawling, poignant, and interesting essay on #MeToo which questions the author’s, as well as our own, personal involvement and actions. All of these topics are covered in the book, and more.

    I personally loved reading Emily Nussbaum’s thoughts on some of my favorite shows, and she also opened my eyes to shows that hadn’t been on my radar, or that I had never given a chance. I also had a good chuckle on the whole “intellectuals” don’t watch TV thing - took me straight back to university where I tried so hard to explain the brilliance of Buffy to some of my friends who couldn’t understand why I would be watching it (luckily I had others who had no qualms about watching TV with me AND debating poetry and literature). I love how Emily Nussbaum writes: she’s funny and honest, sharp and engaging, and has me wanting to read more.

    I don’t think you have to be a proven fan of the critic to enjoy this essay collection - it’s great for just about anyone who loves TV I think!
  • J Colman
    5.0 out of 5 stars TV finally gets the respect it deserves
    Reviewed in the United States on July 15, 2019
    A must read for anyone who owns a tv. This is the literal guidebook of the most influential television shows of the modern day era but certainly not just the dreaded "top ten list." Witty and succinct - Emily Nussbaum is the right person at the right time to write intelligently about the shows and provide poignant literary criticism to put them in cultural perspective at the particular point that they aired. From Archie to Buffy...many of the shows we love and those that are now on our watch list.
  • Giselita
    5.0 out of 5 stars Made for me m
    Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2020
    It’s honestly so good. Absolute creme brûlée for those of us for whom TV — its culture and rich history, and the experience of collectively watching it, simultaneously in solitude and in connection to millions — has been a defining formative influence. It’s sensitive, thought provoking, self critical, funny as hell, and just feels like it was written for only me, even though I hadn’t seen half the shows (or insist that Buffy does not hold up for millennials).
  • Timothy Haugh
    4.0 out of 5 stars Our Shows Don't Overlap
    Reviewed in the United States on January 4, 2020
    Let me say from the beginning that I think Ms. Nussbaum is a good writer and that her analysis of the various shows she talks about here seems very convincing. I also find her essay on problem #metoo creates for fans of certain shows and movies (The Cosby Show, Woody Allen’s movies, for example) to be excellent, honest and balanced, if inconclusive. Under normal circumstances, I might be tempted to give this book five stars. There’s only one problem: the explosion of shows in the past 20 years.

    Though I enjoyed reading this book, the fact of the matter is, she writes about hardly any shows I watch. Other than Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt and Jessica Jones and her foray into Norman Lear, there wasn’t a single show here with which I was more than superficially familiar. I’m sure many of these shows are brilliant—friends have been browbeating me to watch Buffy and Sopranos for years, my daughter berates me for not watching The Office—but I simply do not have the time nor interest to spend the time watching TV it would take for me to see everything worthwhile.

    Does it bother me that I can’t watch it all? Not really. I watch quite a bit of TV and I am passionate about the shows I do follow. Unfortunately, it just so happens that Ms. Nussbaum’s and my TV tastes don’t overlap very much. And, for all that she’s a good writer, she’s had no more success in convincing me to take up a new show than my friends have. I’d love to hear her take on shows I do watch (The Crown, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, etc.). Fortunately, I also like to read about TV, whether or not they are shows I watch. And this was certainly a good exercise in that.
  • Stuart Rosen
    5.0 out of 5 stars Unique, idiosyncratic and a hoot
    Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2019
    Phenomenal collection of pieces on an idiosyncratic range of television shows. Nussbaum is thoughtful, admirably unpredictable in her likes and dislikes, and is dedicated to reviewing TV as TV - novelistic or cinematic TV shows get no credit for aping the virtues of other art forms.

    Also, she’s a hoot - funny and irreverent.

    Buy with confidence.
  • Diego de los Reyes
    5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read for any TV viewer with taste
    Reviewed in the United States on December 28, 2019
    Nussbaum’s essays are excellent, delving deep into both the creative and the personal side of television, of both herself and the subjects.

    Also the fact that I rated this 5 stars despite her thoughts on the Lost finale is big for me.
  • Bingoprof
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great read if you love TV
    Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2019
    The author knows TV, and she knows what is going on in the business of TV. A fun, enjoyable read!

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