I learned about this book through Mina, the Universe Guru, and the title resonated with me right away. It was almost like immediately I had a word for the longing that had lived in my core my whole life.
Reading it and working through the exercises was profoundly healing and validating but also educational beyond what I expected. I cried. I smiled. I imagined myself becoming a mom and found myself filled with joy I never imagined I could feel, when my whole life I assumed mothering could never be for me. That was an unexpected surprise.
I hope this book finds all the women who need it and are ready to heal, and I hope Mother Hunger as a diagnosis becomes available to counselors everywhere in the near future.
My recommendations: Journal while you read this book. Take breaks and practice self-compassion exercises—especially if you can link your inner critic to your mom.
Lastly, keep an open mind. I’ve seen some reviews say this book presents an unrealistic standard for mothers in this economy but that’s the point! The current status quo is not conducive for healthy moms and babies. Mothers are supposed to be able to relax and rest, and to be able to afford to do so comfortably and safely while supported by community. This may look like partnering with a dependable man who has the resources for you to take as much time off from work as you want or need, especially the first three years of the the baby’s life. And yes, men like this exist.
Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance
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