The Road Less Traveled: A New Psychology of Love, Values, and Spiritual Growth, 25th Anniversary Edition
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Told in a voice that is timeless in its message of understanding, The Road Less Traveled continues to enable us to explore the nature of loving relationships and leads us toward a new serenity and fullness of life. It helps us determine how to distinguish dependency from love; how to become a more sensitive parent; and ultimately how to become one's own true self.
Recognizing that "Life is difficult" and that the journey to spiritual growth is a long one, Dr. Peck never bullies his listeners, but gently guides them through the hard and often painful process of change toward a higher level of self-understanding.
Combining profound psychological insight and deep spirituality, this is an audiobook that provides inspiration and understanding.
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Dr. Peck has much to say about honesty in the section about discipline. He states that a life of total dedication to the truth means first, a life of continuous and never-ending stringent self-examination, second, a willingness to be personally challenged, and thirdly, it means a life of total honesty. Of people who live this life of total honesty he says, "Through their openness they can establish and maintain intimate relationships far more effectively than more closed people. Because they never speak falsely they can be secure and proud in the knowledge that they have done nothing to contribute to the confusion of the world, but have served as sources of illumination and clarification. Finally they are totally free to be. They are not burdened by any need to hide. They do not slink around in the shadows. They do not have to construct new lies to hold old ones. They need waste no effort covering tracks or maintaining disguises. And ultimately they find that the energy required for the self-discipline of honesty is far less than the energy required for secretiveness. The more honest one is, the easier it is to continue being honest, just as the more lies one has told, the more necessary it is to lie again. By their openness, people dedicated to the truth live in the open, and through the exercise of their courage to live in the open, they become free from fear."
In the section on love, Dr. Peck maintains that true spiritual growth can be achieved only through the persistent exercise of real love. And true love is not a feeling, it's an action. Most of what we call love is just plain dependency, a force that causes people to fiercely attach themselves to one another. But this type of love constricts and traps rather than liberates, and if you expect another person to make you happy, you'll be endlessly disappointed.
Among many other illuminating ideas is his notion that God resides in our unconscious, that our unconscious mind is God, and that this is no different than the Christian concept of the Holy Spirit dwelling within us. Interesting.
I could go on and on about this book. It's one that has significantly altered my view of life and my place in this world. I would like to thank Dr. Peck for sharing these illuminating insights with us.
David Allan Reeves
Author of "Running Away From Me"
There is one part of the work that really addresses this becoming one with God. It’s called the Odes of the Holy Trinity. I call it God’s discourse on mystical marriage. There are other mystics who have tried to describe this process, mystics like St. John of the Cross and St. Theresa of Avila. I personally find reading them difficult, not so the Odes. For example, in the Ode of the Father, He writes:
Scriptures say: "happy the pure in heart, they shall see God;" today, Vassula, everyone sees as far as they are able to see, but I am telling you all, you too could be counted among My saints who are fit to see Me if you allowed My Holy Spirit to pass through you to shatter all your impurities, and once purity is acquired, the vision of Myself will be given you;
It seems simple enough, invite the Holy Spirit to pass through us and shatter our impurities. How do we do that? What are our impurities? Maybe that’s what Scott was talking about, this work and struggle of life. Ah, but the reward is out of this world, to be one with God, to become Love itself. Veni Sancte Spiritus!