
Somebody's Daughter: A Memoir
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Last update: 07-30-2024
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INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
NBCC John Leonard Prize Finalist
Indie Bestseller
“This is a book people will be talking about forever.” —Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Untamed
“Ford’s wrenchingly brilliant memoir is truly a classic in the making. The writing is so richly observed and so suffused with love and yearning that I kept forgetting to breathe while reading it.” —John Green, #1 New York Times bestselling author
One of the most prominent voices of her generation debuts with an extraordinarily powerful memoir: the story of a childhood defined by the looming absence of her incarcerated father.
Through poverty, adolescence, and a fraught relationship with her mother, Ashley C. Ford wishes she could turn to her father for hope and encouragement. There are just a few problems: he’s in prison, and she doesn’t know what he did to end up there. She doesn’t know how to deal with the incessant worries that keep her up at night, or how to handle the changes in her body that draw unwanted attention from men. In her search for unconditional love, Ashley begins dating a boy her mother hates. When the relationship turns sour, he assaults her. Still reeling from the rape, which she keeps secret from her family, Ashley desperately searches for meaning in the chaos. Then, her grandmother reveals the truth about her father’s incarceration . . . and Ashley’s entire world is turned upside down.
Somebody’s Daughter steps into the world of growing up a poor Black girl in Indiana with a family fragmented by incarceration, exploring how isolating and complex such a childhood can be. As Ashley battles her body and her environment, she embarks on a powerful journey to find the threads between who she is and what she was born into, and the complicated familial love that often binds them.
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Ashley was loved but the feelings bestowed upon her by her mother were sporadic. They were mixed with fear. When she wasn’t being beaten, which started at a very young age, she attempted to discern how to read her mother, how to behave, in order to avoid physical punishment, for something she wasn’t even aware she had done wrong. Not easy for a little girl with no one to turn to for help. As if the actions of a child, let alone anyone, warrant being abused.
Fortunately, she had the love of her maternal grandmother and a little brother, later younger siblings. But that did not change the dynamics at home. When Ashley learned at a young age that her father was incarcerated, but not why, she longed for the father she knew of from his loving letters. She wished he could reach her in the real world.
As a teenager, Ashley meets a boy who gives her attention in a way that she doesn’t want nor that she asks for. Then, he attacks her. From that day forward, she carries the shame and hurt alone. Out of fear, she felt it was a secret she must keep.
What transpires after Ashley is able to get herself through high school and out of the town that simultaneously holds the security of a tight-knit family and horrific memories as well, she is off on the road toward reparation of mind, body, and soul.
What the author endures as a young girl is heart-wrenching but there is such beauty in the making of Ashley as she is coming into her own and as she is becoming somebody’s daughter.

