Somebody's Daughter: A Memoir

4.3 4.3 out of 5 stars | 5,962 ratings

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Last update: 07-30-2024


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INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
NBCC John Leonard Prize Finalist
Indie Bestseller

“This is a book people will be talking about forever.”
Glennon Doyle, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Untamed

“Ford’s wrenchingly brilliant memoir is truly a classic in the making. The writing is so richly observed and so suffused with love and yearning that I kept forgetting to breathe while reading it.” —John Green, #1
New York Times bestselling author

One of the most prominent voices of her generation debuts with an extraordinarily powerful memoir: the story of a childhood defined by the looming absence of her incarcerated father.

Through poverty, adolescence, and a fraught relationship with her mother, Ashley C. Ford wishes she could turn to her father for hope and encouragement. There are just a few problems: he’s in prison, and she doesn’t know what he did to end up there. She doesn’t know how to deal with the incessant worries that keep her up at night, or how to handle the changes in her body that draw unwanted attention from men. In her search for unconditional love, Ashley begins dating a boy her mother hates. When the relationship turns sour, he assaults her. Still reeling from the rape, which she keeps secret from her family, Ashley desperately searches for meaning in the chaos. Then, her grandmother reveals the truth about her father’s incarceration . . . and Ashley’s entire world is turned upside down.

Somebody’s Daughter steps into the world of growing up a poor Black girl in Indiana with a family fragmented by incarceration, exploring how isolating and complex such a childhood can be. As Ashley battles her body and her environment, she embarks on a powerful journey to find the threads between who she is and what she was born into, and the complicated familial love that often binds them.



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Top reviews from the United States

Da
5.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful
Reviewed in the United States on May 18, 2024
Great story about real life issues in a black family! Worth reading...

Hard to put down once beginning! Conclusion is worth the wait.
Veda Taylor
4.0 out of 5 stars Great read
Reviewed in the United States on November 14, 2023
I usually don’t read very many coming of age stories but this one was well written.it was an engaging story.
Nagini21
5.0 out of 5 stars Exquisite
Reviewed in the United States on July 4, 2024
Such a delicate book, while being explosive at the same time. Ashley speaks with a wisdom and dignity that is remarkable - as is her clarity about self-preservation as she got older.
Claire S.
3.0 out of 5 stars Too Many Unanswered Questions
Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2021
So disappointed by this book. The reviews led me to expect something different from normal memoirs of this type and something definitive about her relationship with her dad. I felt cheated at the end that there was no explanation about her mother's behavior and no resolution to the anticipation of something greater with her dad. The book was nicely written, make no mistake. But there is nothing here that hasn't been said by other writers over and over again.
Becky
5.0 out of 5 stars Full circle of life!
Reviewed in the United States on May 22, 2024
It was a beautiful story of discovery, life, love, family and forgiveness. I would highly recommend this book to others.
carilynp
4.0 out of 5 stars Finding love through the pain.
Reviewed in the United States on June 18, 2021
She is a child with parents, but she is longing to feel like somebody’s daughter. She is a teenager, then a young adult learning to redefine what love is – of others and herself. The author tackles a childhood of abuse and a rape. But this book is much more than that. This is a powerful story of a young woman who grew up without her father’s presence, although he is very much alive, and the path she took to finding her way to him.

Ashley was loved but the feelings bestowed upon her by her mother were sporadic. They were mixed with fear. When she wasn’t being beaten, which started at a very young age, she attempted to discern how to read her mother, how to behave, in order to avoid physical punishment, for something she wasn’t even aware she had done wrong. Not easy for a little girl with no one to turn to for help. As if the actions of a child, let alone anyone, warrant being abused.

Fortunately, she had the love of her maternal grandmother and a little brother, later younger siblings. But that did not change the dynamics at home. When Ashley learned at a young age that her father was incarcerated, but not why, she longed for the father she knew of from his loving letters. She wished he could reach her in the real world.

As a teenager, Ashley meets a boy who gives her attention in a way that she doesn’t want nor that she asks for. Then, he attacks her. From that day forward, she carries the shame and hurt alone. Out of fear, she felt it was a secret she must keep.

What transpires after Ashley is able to get herself through high school and out of the town that simultaneously holds the security of a tight-knit family and horrific memories as well, she is off on the road toward reparation of mind, body, and soul.

What the author endures as a young girl is heart-wrenching but there is such beauty in the making of Ashley as she is coming into her own and as she is becoming somebody’s daughter.
Carmen Fonseca
5.0 out of 5 stars It was definitely a good read....
Reviewed in the United States on March 20, 2023
This author is an excellent writer, and the details were spot on.... My heart broke for her a couple times.... At thirteen going threw that of all times.... Then to finding out about her high school sweet heart, that couldn't be easy, it was definitely shocking.... There were things I could relate with this author about.... Like having trouble with your chest growing and people saying wear clothes that fit you, meaning put on a baggy shirt so they are not showing because that is the only way big chest people can make them not show.... It also broke my heart with the mom's boyfriend, the cruel person he is.... Honestly I would say I can't believe the mom stayed with him as long as she did, but that would be a lie because I see it all the time, women choosing men over their kids.... My mom and I didn't get along well either but it seem like this author learn to live with her mom the way she is, I give her credit for that.... There was a part in the book that she describe so perfect that I was like yup, that is so my mom, and it was the scene when she was afraid to tell her mom she got in collage and how much money she would need for the dorm, the reaction she assume her mom would get about giving her the money is how my mom used to act too.... I felt connected to this author in so many levels....
Nathali
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book! it captured me.
Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2024
I love the way he described her childhood scenes, and how it helped me remind of events of my childhood as I was reading her words.

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